Moving the goalposts: the long and exhausting process of having a real debate about abortion

Thu, 25 June, 2009

Imagine playing a game where your opponent constantly changes the rules, or simply invents new ones, every time you are close to winning. Frustrating and demoralising? Almost certainly. But that is what it can be like for pro-lifers who want to discuss abortion.

Many pro-lifers - at least in the first instance - begin with arguments that, for good and ill, depend on eliciting an emotional reaction against abortion, e.g. pictures of cute smiling babies and slogans about killing. At this point, opponents will usually accuse them of having no good academic or ethical arguments and instead resorting to tugging on the heartstrings and trying to manipulate people's emotional responses. Indeed, it is often suggested by pro-choicers that the pro-life argument is based only on emotion.

Very well, say pro-lifers - who might easily make the point that many pro-choice arguments are equally emotive and manipulative - there are plenty of rational and intellectual arguments against abortion. How about the argument made by Enlightenment philosopher Immanuel Kant that individual human beings should always be treated as ends in themselves and not as means to some other end? How about the the thousands of years of medical tradition based on the Hippocratic Oath, which forbids abortion (and, for that matter, euthanasia)? How about the long history of Jewish, Islamic and Christian opposition to abortion? How about the opposition of early feminists to abortion (casting into question the insistence of modern feminism that you cannot be pro-life and a feminist)?

So the pro-lifer has proved that his grasp of bioethics and his knowledge of historical reflection on the human person is sound. But what's this? The ground under our feet shifts once more. Suddenly a strong knowledge of philosophy and an understanding of what it means to be human aren't enough either. Suddenly it's all about the science. If you aren't a doctor, or an embryologist, or a neurobiologist who studies the brain patterns of unborn children, your opinion is worth nothing.

Pretty disappointing, no? But, as a pro-life person, you really want to be involved in the debate, so you acquire some relevant qualifications, study the science in some depth, really get to grips with the material, and after open-minded and thorough inquiry you remain convinced that abortion and embryo research are wrong. Perhaps now your opinion will be treated with more respect, perhaps now you will not be dismissed as an ignorant bigot.

You'd think.

The actual response is that because of your pro-life views, you are incapable of looking impartially at the evidence. You are hopelessly biased and compromised by your views. You ignore evidence when it suits you and cherry-pick the few studies that support your views (of course, those in favour of embryo research and abortion would never dream of letting their own moral views influence their conclusions. For some reason, only pro-lifers are susceptible to distorting their research in this way).

And after all these hurdles, another awaits. You may have proved your willingness to engage with the issues intellectually, your ethical and philosophical expertise, your scientific and medical experience, your impartiality. Finally, it seems, the other side will be willing to listen to your arguments respectfully and engage in a full and frank debate that focuses on the facts.

Well, no. Because it turns out that you're "not really pro-life". Well, you say, I'm pretty certain that I am; I oppose abortion, euthanasia, the misuse of embryos. Ah, says your opponent, but are you also a pacifist? Are you against the death penalty? Do you support increased welfare payments for single mothers? Well, you respond, I'm against the death penalty, but sometimes war is a sad necessity, and I'm not sure that increased welfare for single mothers is the way forward.

Now you're in hot water. "To really be pro-life you should be against all killing, and you should be pro-life throughout the whole of people's lives. Pro-lifers don't care about people being born into poverty, they just want to control women's bodies!"

You try in vain to point out that there are different issues at stake in war, and that it's not comparable to abortion, and that poverty is a complex issue with many different causes, but the conversation is over. You are an inconsistent hypocrite because, unless you object to all the things that the pro-abortion side considers bad, your objection to abortion is just blind prejudice.

Of course, this is not true, but such people work on the principle that if they throw enough mud, some of it will stick.

Jesus tells us that a single sparrow is precious to God.

I am anti-abortion, and against hypocritical so-called "pro-choice" proponents, who, by sanitizing the killing of babies, deny women the information they need to make an informed choice. However, on that last issue, about war and the death penalty, I must say that the other lot have a point. Killing is wong, and if you are not against the death penalty and against war, then you do need to ask yourself where exactly you are coming from.

Reply on choice

Anonymous seems a little confused. If your are anti-abortion you deny women a choice. Pro-choice is as it sounds and provides a choice. To most women abortion would be a last resort anyway as it is not something which they would like to have to go through out of choice.

Debating the benefits of abortion

I read the story posted on your website of the anonymous woman who was glad she did not abort the baby who was the result of a rape attack.
It made me think that what we really need to discover from the 200,000 women a year who terminate their pregnancies if they were happy or unhappy with their decision.
Is there any way to establish what the percentage is of those who regret the decision? This would be ultimately the most useful information. As far as I know we are pretty much in the dark as to whether that percentage is 99% happy or 99% regretful and wished they had a baby? I don't suppose there is any way of finding out, we can hardly send a form out to all those who have had abortions to ask them if they think they made the right decision, so it seems like an impossible fact to establish. Do LIFE know if there are any statistics shine a light on this topic?

Debating the benefits of abortion

I am a 40 years old male who have been involved in the decision to terminate a pregnancy about 20 years ago. My giril friend came to me one day with the news of been pregnant, then I thought I was not ready to father a child, and convinced her to have an abortion, which she did. She went through the pain both emotionally and physically, I was just there to give her emotional support, and then she became well and we moved on with our lives like it never happened.
But for the past five years, the thoughts of regrets has been living with me like my second half, I sometimes find my self in a state of depression as I go into deep thoughts saying had I known, visioning a child I never saw, not to mention the nightmares of seeing and talking to a faceless child I call my own in my dreams. It hurts! It's traumatic!, I wake up feeling empty like I have lost the most precious thing in life. I wonder, If I could be feeling this way, what about the woman who actually went through the procedures? I pray God forgive me and her for our sins of murdering our baby.
For as many of you reading this and contemplating abortion, I beg you, please do not. Even if you feel you cannot take care of the child, there are many couples out there wishing to adopt children, the government willing to give assistance, Just know that you are not alone and most especially, do not put asunder what God has joined together. For God in his word says, for this reason, a man and a woman will be joined together ( in sex) and they both will become one flesh ( The baby ). And He commanded that what He has joined, let no man separate. (Mark 10: 7-9).